I just use it to browse around until I find a gal that looks physically interesting, then I get a fantasy going and enjoy some good masturbation. That's about the best you can expect from these online dating websites. Invariably, when you meet the women in real life, they are less interesting than in a fantasy that you can create yourself. You can meet far more interesting gals in real life, but when you need quickie relief and don't feel like going out, this will do well enough.