I second what Tony is saying. If you are in the Dallas area at least, all these online dating and speed dating services suck for men. There are always many more men than women. You have to go to places that women show up. Go to churches, gyms, museums, bars, anywhere but online to find women. Maybe some day the tide will turn, but until it does men will just have to develop social skills and go where the available and attractive women are at. I think that America in general sucks for men these days. Women are even worse out of shape than men. The few attractive women on these internet sites are always cherry picking, and you will have way more competition online than you ever will offline from other men for attractive women. I am now offline and I wouldn't have it any other way. The online dating sites at least keep some loser men off the streets and out of the running as far as I am concerned. Just look at American women compared to places like eastern Europe, and you see what decades of butt kissing by loser wimped out men has done while the feminazis were at work shoving their beliefs down the throats of the gullible. Thank goodness I went to eastern Europe, got a Russian woman, and dumped these dating sites in particular and feminist women in general.