All the Friend Finder sites suck bigtime. They are the biggest ripoff artists in the online dating industry. The other sites have copied their predatory practices. They have a tiny fraction of the active members that they propose to have. They just put a Jewish face on their same old crap. Match.com is the only site left that i can recommend at all, and it really only works if you are female and REALLY know what you are doing. If I were female, smart, and tough minded, I would go there and be successful in a few months time. As a male, I was finally successful online, but it sure as hell wasn't Friend Finder. It was the old Matchmaker, which does not exist anymore after Lycos bought it and modeled it more after Friend Finder as a way of separating desperate loser males from their money. I am glad to see that Lycos has crashed and burned, which they deserve after screwing up the best online dating site that ever existed in America. Do not give any Friend Finder site a penny of your money. The owner deserves to be behind bars, or worse. No website will ever be any good overall until personal screening of EVERY applicant is made, and only those meeting certain criteria are allowed to join, and the people correctly classified. As it now exists, the whole game is about separating losers and gullible people from their money. Really honest people DO NOT run these websites. Few of the profiles are truly honest as well. There is lack of credibility all across the board. This whole industry needs to be investigated and brought to justice. On many websites you lose control of your photos which can be used for pornographic or commercial purposes against your will. I could not delete my Salon personals profile or photos, only make them non viewable to users. BEWARE!!!!!!!! This whole industry is based on screwing you over, while pretending to be about bringing people together. Almost NOBODY you know had a lot of success online, and you will probably be no different. If you are a smart female, Match.com will be about the best you can do. It's the closest to the old Matchmaker, but you have to be very tough about avoiding the losers. Then YOU write to the few men that really interest you. Ignore the rest.