I had a trial membership. I was enough to let me know that it sucked for men just like every other American website I was ever a member of. I give Match 2 stars, and the OLD Matchmaker 2 stars, which should be rated zero since Lycos trashed it out. I heard that Udate merged with Kiss.com. and it should have been named Kissbutz.com. I never got an email back from that site ever. UNDERSTAND THIS: If you are a male, all American websites suck. If every decent woman found a guy on these American websites, IT WOULD STILL LEAVE 90% OF THE MEN WITHOUT A WOMAN. Time to grow up and find women elsewhere. I took a trip to St. Petersburg, Russia, and found a woman there. Probably better than I ever could find in a whole lifetime of looking on American websites. Udate sucks like a black hole in space. It will suck you into nothingness. It wastes time you could better spend elsewhere.