it's a joke. i especially like the people on there that don't want to meet someone but want you to just "rate" them. take your need to have your ego inflated somewhere else please. some people really are looking for someone. and i can't send e-mails or reply from my computer at home but i can from my one at work and nobody at imatchup is willing to help. as soon as my membership is up i am done. i swear a lot of these are "ringers" hired by imatchup just to make you think someone is interested. i'm not into the rating part but when i viewed my profile and i was rated a 3.0 i couldn't believe it, even shrek was about a 3.0 for crying out loud. and some of the names are enough to make you not want to look. anyone who uses a name like titslarue or ilikeitupthebutt is not going to get my attention. i wonder how many of the nice ones are real members and not "ringers". anyway, so far this site sucks and i could do better going to the mall wearing a shirt that says "single and looking". i'd save money and get my shopping done. anyway, don't waste your time or money.